Why men are lonely
There is a silent epidemic of loneliness amongst men. Not because men don’t have friends or family. Not because they don’t have people to hang [Read more]
Side by Side
In South Africa we live in the most unequal society in the world. It hurts, it’s not fair, it’s a reality and we can all do [Read more]
5 ways for dads to bond with their Baby
The best start any dad can give his children in life is to establish a strong bond with them from the very beginning. But the process [Read more]
Keys to an Excellent Life
Who doesn’t want their life to count, to suck the marrow out of life, to live large, to be known as a man or woman who makes the world a [Read more]
Dads in Lockdown
Things can get really real when you are stuck in the confines of your home for an extended period with your wife and children. But as [Read more]
The Price of Belonging
We all have a deep need to belong, to be part of something bigger than ourselves, something which gives us a sense of identity and [Read more]
The E’s of Nation Building
Every great nation, without exception, has been built on three foundation stones: Education, Enterprise and Ethics. And every nation that has fallen, without exception, has fallen [Read more]
What does an excellent life look like?
An excellent life is within reach of everyone. It's not for the exceptionally talented, or lucky, or rich. It's for you. And it starts with a commitment; a commitment [Read more]
Men have been seduced by a lie
All men have three basic yearnings: purpose, adventure and romance. John Elldredge puts it beautifully in his book Wild at Heart when he writes that every [Read more]
What stands between you and excellence?
The quality of our lives is directly proportional to our commitment to excellence. What a statement! We can directly impact the quality of every aspect of our lives simply by [Read more]
#NotInMyName: Five actions every man can take.
No-one who calls himself a man can sit back while our society is ravaged by toxic masculinity. The opposite of masculinity is not femininity, it’s passivity. All it takes for [Read more]
WAR ON WOMEN
Yet another daughter of our land brutalized at the hands of broken manhood. And another. And another. Another precious daughter, sister, mother, aunt savaged by the scourge of toxic masculinity. [Read more]
Five Resolutions for Dads.
It’s barely a week into the new year and already so many of the heartfelt resolutions that sounded so good on 1st January are starting to feel a little onerous. [Read more]
The Soul of Sex
“Every man who knocks on the door of a brothel is looking for God.” – G. K. Chesterton It’s astounding how frequently men will risk complete compromise of their values, [Read more]
Raising the Future – Part Two
Our future lies in the hands of our children and in our hands lies the future of our children. It sounds like a riddle but it’s really quite simple; how [Read more]
Raising the Future – Part 1
Nothing is more important for the future of our planet than how well men and women raise their children. Parents are given the unbelievable privilege of holding the vulnerable, malleable [Read more]
5 crucial commitments of all great dads
A father is his son’s first hero and his daughter’s first romance – the most important man in their lives. Yet being a great father doesn’t just happen. It’s a [Read more]
What is a real man?
Where is the image of true masculinity to be found? Is it in the round-house kick of Chuck Norris or in the decaf latte of the tame metrosexual? Is masculinity [Read more]
MOMS ROCK
Miracle workers and magic makers, no-one exemplifies grace and beauty more than a mom in action. The sweet, healing balm of a mother’s love touches every aspect of her child’s [Read more]
Calling good men
Men have been given great responsibility for the lives and families and communities in their care, and they have been given great strength to fulfill these responsibilities. There are many [Read more]
Beauty and the Beasts
The feminine soul is one of the greatest treasures of the universe. Its beauty has no equal. Yet like all treasures of great value it has enemies. Two beasts in [Read more]
Rape and violence calls for radical action
Rape and violence against women and children is a deadly cancer festering in the psyche of our nation and unless we take radical action to destroy it, it will destroy [Read more]
The power of a good man
I am utterly convinced that if we could somehow place a good man in every household in South Africa crime would come to a grinding halt, our police force would [Read more]
The wild journey of raising a son.
Lately, the popular perception of manhood has shifted from ‘cowboys don’t cry’ to metrosexuals in touch with their feminine side and with a budget for moisturising cream and a face [Read more]
A father’s love for his daughter.
Blythe. I adore her. Our passionate love affair has lasted just over fourteen years and shows no sign of waning. Still when I hear her voice, or her name comes [Read more]
Why men are lonely
There is a silent epidemic of loneliness amongst men. Not because men don’t have friends or family. Not because they don’t have people to hang [Read more]
Side by Side
In South Africa we live in the most unequal society in the world. It hurts, it’s not fair, it’s a reality and we can all do [Read more]
5 ways for dads to bond with their Baby
The best start any dad can give his children in life is to establish a strong bond with them from the very beginning. But the process [Read more]
Keys to an Excellent Life
Who doesn’t want their life to count, to suck the marrow out of life, to live large, to be known as a man or woman who makes the world a [Read more]
Dads in Lockdown
Things can get really real when you are stuck in the confines of your home for an extended period with your wife and children. But as [Read more]
The Price of Belonging
We all have a deep need to belong, to be part of something bigger than ourselves, something which gives us a sense of identity and [Read more]
The E’s of Nation Building
Every great nation, without exception, has been built on three foundation stones: Education, Enterprise and Ethics. And every nation that has fallen, without exception, has fallen [Read more]
What does an excellent life look like?
An excellent life is within reach of everyone. It's not for the exceptionally talented, or lucky, or rich. It's for you. And it starts with a commitment; a commitment [Read more]
Men have been seduced by a lie
All men have three basic yearnings: purpose, adventure and romance. John Elldredge puts it beautifully in his book Wild at Heart when he writes that every [Read more]
What stands between you and excellence?
The quality of our lives is directly proportional to our commitment to excellence. What a statement! We can directly impact the quality of every aspect of our lives simply by [Read more]
#NotInMyName: Five actions every man can take.
No-one who calls himself a man can sit back while our society is ravaged by toxic masculinity. The opposite of masculinity is not femininity, it’s passivity. All it takes for [Read more]
WAR ON WOMEN
Yet another daughter of our land brutalized at the hands of broken manhood. And another. And another. Another precious daughter, sister, mother, aunt savaged by the scourge of toxic masculinity. [Read more]
Five Resolutions for Dads.
It’s barely a week into the new year and already so many of the heartfelt resolutions that sounded so good on 1st January are starting to feel a little onerous. [Read more]
The Soul of Sex
“Every man who knocks on the door of a brothel is looking for God.” – G. K. Chesterton It’s astounding how frequently men will risk complete compromise of their values, [Read more]
Raising the Future – Part Two
Our future lies in the hands of our children and in our hands lies the future of our children. It sounds like a riddle but it’s really quite simple; how [Read more]
Raising the Future – Part 1
Nothing is more important for the future of our planet than how well men and women raise their children. Parents are given the unbelievable privilege of holding the vulnerable, malleable [Read more]
5 crucial commitments of all great dads
A father is his son’s first hero and his daughter’s first romance – the most important man in their lives. Yet being a great father doesn’t just happen. It’s a [Read more]
What is a real man?
Where is the image of true masculinity to be found? Is it in the round-house kick of Chuck Norris or in the decaf latte of the tame metrosexual? Is masculinity [Read more]
MOMS ROCK
Miracle workers and magic makers, no-one exemplifies grace and beauty more than a mom in action. The sweet, healing balm of a mother’s love touches every aspect of her child’s [Read more]
Calling good men
Men have been given great responsibility for the lives and families and communities in their care, and they have been given great strength to fulfill these responsibilities. There are many [Read more]
Beauty and the Beasts
The feminine soul is one of the greatest treasures of the universe. Its beauty has no equal. Yet like all treasures of great value it has enemies. Two beasts in [Read more]
Rape and violence calls for radical action
Rape and violence against women and children is a deadly cancer festering in the psyche of our nation and unless we take radical action to destroy it, it will destroy [Read more]
The power of a good man
I am utterly convinced that if we could somehow place a good man in every household in South Africa crime would come to a grinding halt, our police force would [Read more]
The wild journey of raising a son.
Lately, the popular perception of manhood has shifted from ‘cowboys don’t cry’ to metrosexuals in touch with their feminine side and with a budget for moisturising cream and a face [Read more]
A father’s love for his daughter.
Blythe. I adore her. Our passionate love affair has lasted just over fourteen years and shows no sign of waning. Still when I hear her voice, or her name comes [Read more]
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